People come and go in our life. Whether we like it or not,
we have to accept that.
It hurts when we really care about someone, and we miss them
so much but it seems like they don't care about us. And worst, they don't even
care that we care.
I’m generally talking about relationship here. Not just
about lovey dovey relationship all alone. Bosan lah asyik fikir dalam kotak
kecil pasal cinta dan lelaki kan. Tak berkembang.
I’ve been thinking how human behaves over and over again
lately. Through some observations on others and self-reflection I realize
something that was very...hm what we call it eh? Tak sedap lah...
Sometimes we just were being nice to people for our own good
or for the sake of to be seen as a nice person in front of other people. We act
like we're one of the best things that they have. But for real, we don't really
care. We talks behind each other's back, make fun of other people, bullies, and
walk away from them when they need us. And when they did the same to us,
they're the bad person.
Fuh. Palsunya manusia.
Secara fitrahnya, manusia memang suka bercakap. Tak dapat
dinafikan. Secara logiknya, nobody can be there for us every time we need
them aite. I agree with that. But I don't know. Too much is too much aite?
Sekarang, rasa takut untuk berkongsi dengan sesiapa pun.
Because the one that you shares your secrets might turned
out to be the one who leak your secrets. Secara sengaja, atau tidak. And
because sometimes, people act like they won't judge. But they did all the
judging, just not in front of you.
I rather have someone who can scold me right on my face for
my mistakes, wrong action and misbehave than someone who shows that they care,
they totally understands and tries to make me feel better then point out the
ugly side of me, one by one, to other people.
Realitinya, kita semua pernah melakukan kesalahan. Manusia
kan tak sempurna. Every each one of us pernah buat semua ni, kan? Penipu lah
manusia yang mengaku tidak pernah sama sekali mengumpat, menghakimi dan juga
menghukum. Mungkin bagi kita, apa yang kita buat tu bukan mengumpat. it’s not
judging.
Tapi kalau bukan mengumpat, bukan menghakimi, and then what?
Jujur lah pada diri sendiri. Mengaku kelemahan diri. That’s
the least we can do for ourselves.
Admitting our own mistakes is the start for self-improvement
aite?
Dan menghukum tu tugas Allah. Walau besar mana pun kesalahan
orang, jangan cepat menghukum. Sebab hukuman manusia tidak selalunya adil.
Kalau seseorang tu layak dihukum, biar lah Allah yang jadi Penghukum nya. Bukan
kita, manusia yang juga layak dihukum.
Pernah dengar ayat ni?
"Don’t judge someone just because they sin differently
than you"
Ingat dalam akal. Simpan dalam hati :)
